I'm sorry I don't have an answer for you but I do hope someone answers soon because an answer would be a God send for all of us Tablet Noobs out there. Even if my requirements would be slightly different from this one, it would at least gauge us a little on the right direction. And I do have to say, this little questionnaire thing makes it easier.
I'm kinda sad no one's replied to this thread. :'D If no one does, I guess we'll just have to do a lot of extensive research..